The two daughters of Sheng Hailin are called Wu Shangzhi and Wu Shanghui, which means “supreme wisdom”. The expectations of two small lives when they were named in the past are evident.
Today, the two girls look lively and healthy, and although they are only eight years old, they have grown to 1.3 meters. However, when they were born, the big weight was 3.7 kg, and the small weight was only 2.9 kg.
Because of the premature birth, the two babies lived in the incubator. Because of the special circumstances of Sheng Hailin, there was no corresponding insurance or reimbursement policy. She said, “When you know that you have to pay all your expenses, your head will blow up.” At that time, relying on the money of the colleagues and friends to visit and the subsidy of the unit, it eased the situation of being stretched.
Sheng Hailin said that when he decided to give birth to the twins, he did not consider economic issues. The lover is in the army, she works in the hospital, therefore, "when the first daughter is raised, there is no economic pressure." But this time, Sheng Hailin feels different.
Because the "Sanlu milk powder" incident was just exposed at the time, like many parents, Sheng Hailin bought imported milk powder for her two daughters, which is not a small expense. After spending on hospitals, new moons, babysitters, education, etc., a pen was pressed against the family. Although it is not low in terms of family income, raising two girls makes the days too tight.
In order to earn money to subsidize the family, Sheng Hailin, at the invitation of the company, used his expertise in health to conduct lectures throughout the country, and to gather with her two daughters. In her own words, before the two children were five years old, they spent only one year with them.
The reporter found that the twin sisters are more mature in character than the children of the same age. Even when they saw that their mother had talked about the sadness of the death of their eldest daughter, they would comfort me gently: "Mom, don't you cry? You have us now."
Twin daughter
Although they are twins, they look similar to outsiders, but in the eyes of their mothers, the two are still different. Sheng Hailin thinks that her sister is more precocious and her sister has a higher emotional intelligence.
Although I often frown because of the pressure of life, as long as I hear people praise that the two children are good, or well-behaved, Sheng Hailin’s face will still show a smile.
In recent years, Sheng Hailin is also trying to increase the time spent with her daughter. Despite feeling that she couldn't keep up with her energy, she decided to transfer her two children from boarding school to a primary school near her home.
Contradiction and entanglement: choose companionship or earn money?
"We want our sister, if the sister is alive, how good!" - Wu Shangzhi, Wu Shanghui still do not know how to do things, often said to her mother.
"If my sister is there, maybe there will be no you." - Sheng Hailin's helpless tone can make people feel a trace of sadness.
"Well, sir, we..." - the twin sisters are still childish.
"..." - Sheng Hailin has already answered without a word.
Because he has embarked on a road that no one has ever walked in at home, many times he encounters problems that other people have not encountered, so the contradiction and entanglement are always accompanied by Sheng Hailin.
She does not know that children need their own companionship, but often go to lectures all over the country because they need to make money.
She did not want to save the expenses of the new moon and the nanny, but after all, after 60 years, coupled with her husband's partiality, it is impossible to cope with two children.